Interesting perspective Lola.

I guess that would apply if there is no OW. OW skews their thinking entirely and everything is all about their own personal happiness.

Chris - Hang on girl! Don't make any further overtures toward your H. Don't ask for a hug, don't get physical with him at all. It seems like the physical contact with you is keeping him looping. That could end up prolonging the limbo IMHO.

Be careful and take care of yourself. You are the only you that you have!!!!

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!