Yes, there is a lot to report, but I guess most of it is on my thread. Where is your thread? Do you have one?
My H has distanced himself quite a bit since we last talked. Sounds eerily similar to what your W did. Are you happier now? I think you hit the nail on the head when you said "he isn't being honest." He has always been a quite person anyway, and getting any information from him in nearly impossible.
I did call him last night and he was driving home. I asked some questions and he answered me, but some of them 'didn't really match up' to what a normal reaction time and answer should have been. He has NEVER admitted it, but there's a girl - who I believe he's seeing/talking to on cell phone - who lives near where he supposedly went scouting yesterday.
He was kind enough on the phone, but that could be because he was lying and he knew it. I re-read your first post here last night and that's why I went looking for you. Your comment about how it is easier for them to pull away once they separate is becomming a reality for me too.
Our attys spoke for the first time this past Tuesday. In my defense, my atty asked that we both live in the marital home for 6-8 months and seek counseling for an uncontested divorce. And, if it doesn't work then I would "give him the house with my half equity being paid to me." His incentive would be that he would save a lot of money by not going through "the fight."
He called me Friday night to tell me he wasn't going to "...take the deal. We're getting a divorce, and I'm not going to waste eight more months and counseling and all that. That's ridiculous and I don't want to do it."
End of story. He's never gone to counseling with me all through our marriage. I just may have to fight it all the way and hope the judge "orders counseling" in the end.
"My W and I have very little reason to interact." Are you still in this predicament? Where are you in terms of the D going forward? Do you still talk to her? How is your R now?
Hey, do you know of anyone else on these boards like us? Or, are we the ONLY two?
