Hey all trying to find my spot on the boards

[Jeff44woodwrkr]

Hello all,
Here is link to my original post http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1499324

Well its been almost 3 months now since my wife moved out.She spends a great deal of time with OM.If you read my original post you can see I begged pleaded and did all the wrong stuff.Have been useing the DB and DR stuff for almost 2 months now.She has noticed changes but it seems not to matter.I havn't pressed any R talks in weeks.I've been working taking care of my children and trying to get my house in order.I attend alot of aa and alanon meetings and counseling once a week.I'm actually starting to feel pretty good about myself :).Since she moved out I've got a new and better job a new car and updated my wardrobe a bit.Lost 30 lbs so positive stuff is going on.(got laid off old job the monday after wife moved out talk about double whammy)
I'm posting again because I havnt got much feedback in my original posts and I really enjoy reading others stories.Alot of the advice given to others has helped me imensly.
I'm no longer in the pit of despair as I call it, but I do have days of sadness.I wish she would make contact with an interest in me but I guess patience is the name of the game here.
Also I feel like im trapped in the twilight zone... I'm still married but have no wife.I have met a few women who I find interesting and attractive but like stated above I'm still married.Wife has said she wants divorce but hasnt acted yet.
This rolercoaster of emotions and feelings at times is alot to take in.Sometimes I wish It was all behind me and I was in an emotionally healthy state and could move on and other times I just want my wife to come home and forget about the OM.
Hehe when I read throu what Ive written so far I apear to be insane :).
I could use any advice or support I guess

Jeff in Michigan