I don't really have my own thread any more. There was one on Surviving the Big D, which is probably the best one to use (or the one on WAS).
I am in touch with my spouse. Amazingly, she is going to come round later today - to drop of my stuff that had been stored at my FIL's. Like Dom, I will be buying her out of her share of the house at the end of next week (eeek). Everything feels so final that I've (sadly) given up on anything other than staying friends.
I'll check out your thread now.
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)