Essie, I don't have a lot of time to post right now, but 30 minutes of kissing and H wanting to do more?!!!
THAT IS HUUUUUGE!!!
I guess what you do next depends on your goals. If you want more kissing, maybe carry on doing what you're doing- respond in kind by keeping on making contact here and there? Your H seems to respond when you express an interest in seeing him. Maybe he feels like you couldn't be interested in him? I think my H is like that too.
Dealing with inadequancy- let them choose places to meet up, show them they're interesting to you, compliment them, make them feel good about themselves, give them opportunities to acheive things and make decisions......
Great job on the no OR talks. I think you do need to let him initiate them. But don't be TOO cool- warm and responsive, but busy with your picnic, if that makes sense?
GREAT NEWS FUTURE GIRL!!!!! I'm so happy for you- such a great step forward (and a bit jealous. I'm not sure I can remember how to do proper kissing any more!!) YAYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!
