Detach. Your anger only breeds bitterness. This woman will always be the mother of your child, your precious daughter. Normal people go insane during divorce.. emotionally, thought wise.. it is a bad time. Time heals all wounds unless you keep picking them. Stop peeling the scab off.
Send her blessings whenever you feel yourself getting riled about her actions. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. Otherwise you might find yourself with a lifetime of bitterness.
You don't need to send all the photos.. just two or three. It sends a message. If you don't feel right doing it.. don't. Do you think your wife might feel as upset about not seeing your daughter in the wedding as you feel about missing the haircut?
Protect your child. But she'll still need both her parents.
