I also plan to talk to my and the kids' therapist about this and tell her so she can hopefully help minimize any damage to the kids. Good!
Doesn't he have to know that was clearly wrong and not good for the kids? I mean he's 42 years old, college-educated lawyer, church-going (calls himself Christian) so I just don't even understand that. I don't see the point in talking to him about it, b/c he has to know that would if nothing else be very upsetting to me.
Somewhere in the back of his little pea brain, he knows this is wrong and that he is crossing the line, but he is also a DAFT and that cancels it out. Thinking with the little brain is just so damn counterproductive.
Originally Posted By: karen43
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From your post I know your kids are probably sweet and nice to everyone, so are mine, they are so innocent, I'm going to (I know you will also) try to protect them from all the bad crap in this world as long as I can. They will grow up soon enough.
Yeah, they are sweet to everyone. S14 said he told me he knew that was dad's girlfriend and everything; that's gotta be hard for him to deal with.
You must have very sweet, polite kids because if you didn't your DS would have said something to that HW (homewrecking whore...for the uneducated.) My heart aches for him, the knowing is the hardest part. DD probably doesn't know, but if OW is telling her she came and saw them in a play, she is going to start connecting the dots. Kids are much smarter than we think. ((Karen)) I'm so sorry. It probably wouldn't do a lot of good to try and talk to H about it, but I would definately talk to their C and the L. Take care of you. (((Hugs))) Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
