The latest:

Not much new.

Jaw, thanks for sticking around.

I dropped off H for his trip to Greece on Wed. When I arrived at the house he told me I had mail. I knew that it was his response papers and that he had responded that he wanted a D.

First he stalled on filing the papers and now he is stalling on having any discussions regarding the separation of assets and debts. He wants a D but is holding me back and himself back from moving on. What gives?

I confronted the OW tonight by message and haven't gotten a response. I know it is not by DB rules, but he has been making a fool of me for too long. I believe that she has no idea he is married. I do not want revenge, that is the Lord's, but this EA is different than the others. They really seem to be building a relationship and not just flirting like all the others. I believe this is what I have to do to stand for my marriage. I am bracing for his reaction. I told him that I will forgive him for everything he has done without acknowledging that I knew about his many EA's and lies.


Posts
Role Reversal(original)
WAW now LBS part I & II
WAW now LBS part III(current)
T: 9 yrs
M: 8 yrs
WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07
LBS: Sep 07-pres.