losing sunshine but gaining happiness either way

[LosingSunshine]

Quick question for the WAWs and almost WAWs...probably not so short an answer but it would be much appreciated.

So, I am happy. I am not on my way I am there but lingering questions exist that won't change the sitch but hopefully will add to my overall understanding and comfort that I have.

My question is what makes a women choose between looking and reading on how to save the M vs reading on how to find happiness as a woman and move on? I ask this because my WAW / STBX read a lot of feminist and womens Lib type stuff leading up to sitch and not marriage oriented type material. Not that it makes a difference just curiousity on a Saturday night I guess.

1st night with kids at the Ws. 1st night GAL without W at house. Had fun all day and night and looking forward to taking the kids to mass in the am.

My buddy just called me from Sturgis...next year Chris...next year. He was checking in on me and I was thankful...for the good friends that I have. To step away from buffalo chip to check in on me. I owe him even though I am happy and okay.
Chris