The only thing I feel needs to be said here is this may be the wrong forum for this thread, unless sgctxok is helping gather notes for the nexr DB book.
The point that divorce isn't what we wanted for our kids is moot for us. It's already happened. So, asking us what works, then preaching about how we should avoid the big D probably is out of place for those Surviving the Big D.
And I have to wonder. Sgctxok cannot possibly be so dense as to miss this point as many times as it appears. So, spill it. What's the big picture here? Why ask the choir to provide quotes, then stir us up when they're not the ones you want?
