Its ok to feel hurt Buster, but realize if you can get a rise out of her the following is going on :
1. She HEARS that you were hurt by her behaviour. 2. She feels guilty 3. She's angry with you for your mistakes, and she's feeling angrier with herself for her response to them. 4. She's tense because she doesnt' know what you are thinking or feeling - NOT KNOWING what is going on with you clearly drives her CRAZY. 5. She's curious as to why you arne't talking to her since you were before. 6. Shes embarassed and humiliated that you wont' interact with her. 7. She hates herself.
Dude, this is a good play here. You want that conscience nagging at her. Remember the article i sent you earlier, she's going to be angry, she's going to threaten you. When she felt you were ok with her behaviour she was ok with it and felt happy with herself. You changed your stance now and she's not dealing wiht that easily.
That's good, you WANT her stressed out, you want her angry, you want her to feel anxious about what she's doing, THAT is going to eat away at her while YOU aren't doing any work.
If she texts you, IGNORE IT.
tell your parents the best way they can help you now is to front her visits for you. THEY aren't to speak with her AT ALL either, only supervise her visit and to escort her to the door when she's done.
YOU stay away from there. Be OUT someplace and leave her wondering where you are..it will PANIC her to no end...again you want that. You want her curious about what you are doing and MISSING YOU. You WANT to draw her TO YOU and giving her the space to do that sometimes does lead them to you.
Again this is always an experiment and we have to see how she handles it. I am not surprised at all that she' stormed off..its classic response.
