GP, hmm, not sure how long it took, I just know that I prayed 3 times a day from that book and it worked. God hates divorce, so it will work for you. I think that too many people just throw in the towel. Too, I knew that my H wasn't 'as done' as he thought he was. he wanted to be. I guess after 21 years of knowing someone, you know them...? Good luck, Lisa