In the end, all you can do is focus on you. I realized that yesterday when I was pondering why C wasn't "fixing" H. H isn't C's patient. I am. C is fixing me. Then he trusts that I will be able to set appropriate boundaries & take H's comments as information rather than a personal attack on my character.
Focus on you is a great thing. hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
