WOW! This guy KNOWS his stuff, Buster. I'm telling you, we BOTH need to listen to his advice. Just today, I told my H (over the cell phone) to have a good day TWICE. I repeated myself, and he caught me. "You already said that," he answered. The first time, he said, "I'll try." I realize now, after reading Mark's last post to you, that I shouldn't have "enabled" him. It only makes him feel less guilty. What GREAT insight, Mark! THANK you.
Mark is hitting the nail on the head. He feels the guilt. Other people have said that to me on these boards, and it's just now sinking in. I've been on these boards since 7/2/08, exactly one month. So, Buster, please, please listen to Mark before it's too late. I've made my sitch so much worse than it was a month ago, by not doing what I was told to do here.
