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Originally Posted By: yellowrose
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My h and I both worked on it together. He knew how I felt because I told him. Just as I had to wait for him to get through is problems, he had to wait for me to get through that. What was great is that he understood. It worked!

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Did you tell him this (not sure whether you love him as much after the A) after he moved home that last time?

I am so weary this week. Still no news from H in 4.5 weeks, except the call he made which I missed last Fri. He didn't call back. Not sure how to take that - whether he's being vindictive for missing his calls. Plus I emailed the boys saying I didn't understand what's going on with their Dad. I also explained I have been very quiet. And that I am doing my best to show them all my love and care from a distance. Not sure if they went and asked him why I wrote what I wrote and he got mad....


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Yes, I did tell him how I felt. I needed to get it all out in the open. You know start fresh.

Maybe your h just needs this time to work on himself. He might just be withdrawing for now. Like I said before we can never tell what is going on in their minds.

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YR,

Thank you for all the answers. All of you have asked great questions! Some I have thought of myself but right now I'm no where near that area. I hope I will be one day!

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YR,
I posted about this on my thread. SS emailed me last minute (then called) about visiting tomorrow morning. Couldn't make it. Then H got on phone and we arranged for Mon evening. A close call and a delicate balance...


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YR:

I cannot believe it is to be near 110 out your way. Unbelievable!!

Your area is sounding a lot like where I live.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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Yes, it's hot, hot, hot!!!! No rain!!! Darn It!


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So you finally had contact??? That's good. I'll check out your thread.

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You will get there!

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YR, Thanks for checking out my thread. Sorry to hear that it's so hot in Texas. Hope you get some relief soon. Have a great weekend.


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YR,

Thank you for your support! I hope I do get there soon!! If you have time check out my thread, you won't believe what happened today.

Thanks again!!!

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nlt:

going to read it now. i have had a whirlwind of a week, also.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
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YR....stop by my thread....thx \:\)


Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity




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