1. You don't answer your phone. 2. You tell her HE is fine and THAT is all you SAY.
How is this so complicated?
When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, you just IGNORE IT.
How is this so damn hard?
If she calls, you ignore the call.
If she sends a text, you send text back once to say
"Our son is physically healthy and holding up under the storm of your affair. He will survive but will be seriously scarred."
And you leave it there. You don't answer her calls. When she comes to pick him up, you have one of your parents sit on on her visit and YOU dont BE there.
When your wife comes to drop your son off you Don't BE THERE.
This is not hard to comprehend, its a matter of resolve. You simply need to grow a pair. I know it hurts, I know its stressful, but it will shake her little world up a bit and send a message to her that YOU will NOT TOLERATE her CRAP anymore. What happened to "so much for mr nicey?"
You did post that right? Where IS HE?
Where is mr not so nicey? Where is MR detachment?
Read Divorce Remedy again. This material is all in there. Its up to you to accept it.
