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[Lissie]

Ian, I felt my mom needed to know the truth. They were using my D to get responses. They were using the pictures to get responses from me or to "test" the responses they would get from my mom..My mom had an idea of what was going on. She now knows the truth.

Yup your mom. The Christian one? The one that would not hurt a fly? That wonderful mom now knows the truth. yes sir. She not only knows the truth, she is now hurt more than you know. B/c if your mom is anything at all like my mom, things involving the children hurt to her core more than anything else could.

What hurt her feelings was them doing this. They could have just sent the pictures..No, they have to do what they did.

Actually what your mom wouldn't of known in this case, would not of hurt her.

IMHO.

So is that right Ian. Should I just overlook that?

Mike, you are going to figure out the hard way, if you keep going this way, which battles are the important ones, and which battles you should just let go of.

I am sorry about what your FIL did. Funny how blood is thicker than water most times.

No matter all that you have done for the second set of parents you once had.

Those are the shitty hard hurtful breaks, and they suck ass. Some things we just need to accept and mourn and move on from them. I suspect you will after today.

As far as snooping..she's been in my stuff..she looked for evidence of an A. I looked in her stuff for evidence of an A and did last night. She has removed items from the house.

Are you gonna go tit for tat on everything OR is this one gonna be about it?

Just askin'

It seems like a lot of huffin and puffin on your part but your STBX is still out doing her THANG, and you are the one that has gotten yourself into a tizzy today.


I don't mean to disrespect you in any way, or belittle your feelings. I know b/c I have been there, and have done that. Stomping my feet was a trademark of mine, I ruined many good pair of shoes that way, it was my own fault.

Hope your day gets super