Lyn, he really doesn't have much to do with "her" anymore, just an occasional benign email.
That he is more focused on his hobbies than the M started happening a long time ago. While I was ignoring and pushing him away. Yes I did do that. He was totally devoted and in love with me for a long time but I took him for granted and am paying the price now. He just gave up after trying to make me happy for so long.
His actions from the time of bomb have always been the opposite of what he says. One evening recently he came out of his office to where I was sitting on the couch reading and said "I thought I should come out here and spend some time with you because we're in love". Funny, I can't take it seriously now. Lisa
