I just don't understand what your rationale for that was. So please, tell me what your thought process was on doing this?
Ian, I felt my mom needed to know the truth. They were using my D to get responses. They were using the pictures to get responses from me or to "test" the responses they would get from my mom..My mom had an idea of what was going on. She now knows the truth.
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You knew it would hurt her feelings, why not just let your mom go on about her business and feel good that she got pictures of her granddaughter.
What hurt her feelings was them doing this. They could have just sent the pictures..No, they have to do what they did.
Ian, this morning when I got up, I cleaned up, changed and took "her" trash to the station to get rid of it. I then went back to get a load of stuff to move to the house. Part of that stuff included a hand written cookbook by my mother which was given to my D. So I go to where I had moved the cookbook and lo and behold, cookbook missing. So I ask STBX where the cookbook is. I get informed it's her cookbook and it stays here..as a matter of fact the cookbook for my D just happened to have been moved to my STBX place of business...
So is that right Ian. Should I just overlook that? Ya know there's a picture of my STBX's grandmother framed on the wall, underneath the picture in the frame is a handwritten recipe for a "snowball" cake..what if I just went in and ripped that down and took it to work?? Beside that picture is a picture of STBX's dead grandfather, He was a preacher, Under his picture is a framed hand written sermon he gave..so should I just get it??
As far as snooping..she's been in my stuff..she looked for evidence of an A. I looked in her stuff for evidence of an A and did last night. She has removed items from the house.
