I don't know what to tell you about what H said concerning not focusing on M. Heck, my W hasn't been focusing on M in a discernable way for years now.
But I have found lovingly detaching from W's drama has done wonders for my PMA. I find it very easy to be pleasant and smiling around W these days - which I am sure ticks her off some. But I don't want to go down the road to depression and do something that would be further injurous to M and the family.
As you can see, Piecing has become a hopping place over the past few months. Maybe our sitchs will become "hopping" with good tidings soon as well.
But I don't want to go down the road to depression and do something that would be further injurous to M and the family.