I definitely understand what you said about being impatient. I just want H to sit down and read the DR and get the same things I got from it, but I know that will never happen. I know he is not in a place in his own mind right now where anything would sink in anyway. I also hate that feeling of not being able to get though to him or reach him. Hang in there! You have gone through so much already, I just read through your earlier posts. I feel like I can't handle one more day of this and it has only been 15 days! I don't know how you do it.

Nik


M: 25, H: 29
T: 4 years
M: 11 months
Bomb (ILYBNILWY): 7/11/08
Found out about OW: 7/12/08
Seperated but living together