Hi Lisa, Good to hear an update from you. You didn't mention anything about OW. Is she still in the picture? What is the status of that. I don't get his point about not wanting to focus on the marraige. What is that all about? Maybe he is experiencing a mild depression or maybe he just doesn't know what he wants. Anyway, what to do? I don't have a good answer. But your idea of detaching I think might be good for your sanity. Even if it's temporary or if it helps you take your mind off things for a while. I'm glad you are holding on to your changes because in the end I believe it will be for the best. Remember believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see. Good Luck! Lyn
