I told her that if I found out they met while separated, I would go for full custody.
H4H bear hug to you karen.
Thanks everyone! Yeah, I'm def. going to talk to my lawyer about this. I don't think it's a coincidence that my L is on vacation from August 1 for the whole month unfortunately and he decided to do this August 1st. I also plan to talk to my and the kids' therapist about this and tell her so she can hopefully help minimize any damage to the kids.
I am thinking I probably at this point, until/unless I hear differently from the C or the L, I don't really plan on talking to H about it. Doesn't he have to know that was clearly wrong and not good for the kids? I mean he's 42 years old, college-educated lawyer, church-going (calls himself Christian) so I just don't even understand that. I don't see the point in talking to him about it, b/c he has to know that would if nothing else be very upsetting to me. He picks up the kids for church tomorrow (ha-ha) and I plan to be gone or not around or whatever. I think I'm just planning on Extreme LRT right now, as much as I possibly can with the kids of course.
