Printing them up copies of the article and handing it to them, telling them if they love their daughter they will read it is educating them.
Telling them that she needs your help and her famlies help is educating them.
They think that you should be rid of her becuase they think she's just acting out and childish...shes ILL, emotionally ILL.
HOpefully if you share the article with the pastor, printing it up and handing it to him, he will educate himself and your family.
Deciding an alcoholic is useless and that you should be rid of them is just a ridiculous and immature approach. They are ill and need HELP, not ostracization.
Sometimes the educative process meets resistance and takes time.