"welcome to my world!!!!!!! We understand so much now, and we want to share it with our S's. However, you can't force anything...and patience is key. They need to work their own issues out too."
Hi you two,
Just stopping in to say good morning. I've just read the last three posts, two from wifey and one from neil. You guys are doing great.
I gotta tell ya ... I'm feeling the same way right now. Don't know if ya'll have visited my Advice from DB coach thread lately or not, but I did call H this morning a couple of times. I'll put into my thread later, I guess. But one time I asked what he was doing. There was no TV in the background as usually there is.
He said he was just laying there. I guess he's working through his issues too. I just want to HOLD him and make him understand that we could get through this and it would be so easy if H would try. But I can't. I know that. I was calm and wished him a good day. He said, "you too." Jeeesh!
What are the THINKING? Why can't they just WAKE UP???