It's so weird b/c I really had been feeling strong, confident, and all--and that has turned me into a teary, insecure pile of mush! And I'm thinking such negative thoughts of H and his lack of morals and the OW and her lack of morals. OW was telling D8 that she came to see them (H and D8) in the play they had been in December. Barf! And my D8 keeps talking about how nice she is!!!! Now I almost regret they are such sweet, loving kids, b/c they are being sweet and loving with her, too! Karen