The emails I found have been forwarded to all my family members. Of course my MOm is very upset that STBX and her dad have did this.
Mike, sorry but why the hell would you send these emails to your family? I get that you keep them for yourself, but why would you send this to your mom. You knew it would hurt her feelings, why not just let your mom go on about her business and feel good that she got pictures of her granddaughter.
You said no games, but to me this is just that. You playing into it by causing more strife than is necessary for your mom. I just don't understand what your rationale for that was. So please, tell me what your thought process was on doing this?
As far as you not getting pictures, that is just another fricked up move on your STBX's part and is rude as hell. I understand that this hurt your feelings, it is a big deal. First haircuts are memories and she chose not to include you in on that. Very immature of her. It simply shows that her own interests are more important than her daughter to her. Any respectable mother would recognize that her D's memories are more important than her own anger, shame on her for that.
Quote:
I wondered why they came from him...so I snooped..I know, it's private, I invaded her space..blah, blah, blah. I'll give myself a 2x4 so you don't have to.
Last but not least, it is not as simple as you giving yourself a 2x4. It is you recognizing that it is wrong to invade her privacy and that what you did was a sneaky way around simply asking. You don't want her in your private stuff right?So stay out of hers.
