He doesn't ask about your girls because he knows he has really hurt them.

If I had to say who was/is hurt the most by what my H has done, it would have to be the girls for many reasons. He avoided them on and off because of his actions in front of them.

He would have never done those things in front of S17 which is why I think it has been easier to be around S17.

This really is a mental illness, imo.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19