Well here I am. I have came a long way since this all started and it is Aug 2, the day I offically and legally am divorced. Things have changed so much so quickly. I actually spent the first 45 minutues of my morning chatting with XH (I have to call him that now, dont I?). Didn't talk about a whole lot, just chatting about life really. It was nice to talk as friends. H is starting to see that he has made a mistake. Even said that he should have never cheated on me in the first place. Is in the process of breaking it off with OW and getting a place by himself. He broke off the lease he had with the house with the OW and refused to co-sign a car with her. He wants to get back to church and wanted to know if it would be strange if he went back to our church. I don't care. I know the church I go to is what he needs and as long as he doesn't sit by me, I honestly don't mind him being there.

I am busy working on my house. I got the bedroom painted and am moving the bed and dresser into the room today. I am going on my yearly Chicago trip with my mom next weekend and have signed up to get back with guitar lessons. The new school year starts up soon. I am excited to get back and meet my new students, but I am dreading having to explain to my co-workers, former students and parents why my name is different. That won't be fun. However I do enjoy my teaching job and want to get back to work.

So life keeps moving on. I see my Dad is here with the truck, so I need to get going....

Thanks for the continued support.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08