Confused and Bewildered

[7 Year Itch]

So H came over last night. It was interesting. He had said he'd stay for a movie during the day yesterday so that was good. Anyway, he got there, we had dinner. Then I told him how earlier in the day I had promised D2 some M&M's because she went on a toilet at a store with automatic flushers (she's terrified of them), so I asked if he'd mind taking them to the corner store to get some. Then he goes "well, I had another idea. Why don't we all go and get some icecream". Me, invited..... my HIM!

So I said, that sounds good. So we went. THen on the way home, I took them by the equestrian center to show them where my new job was. We got home, and got the girls straight to bed.

Then he came in the room, and was obvious he was super tired. So we skipped the movie. But then as happens with us often, one thing led to another, and we ML. And he ended up being here until Midnight anyway.

So we were talking ,and he said that while he is off for a week in August he will plan to watch the girls so I don't have to have my friend do it while I'm working. HE said he'd take them for the week. So I sort of wigged thinking he meant at HIS house. So I said ,I don't know if Ican go a week without seeing them, and he said."No, I'll watch them at the house". So that is cool. I'm hoping he would just stay here that week then. That would be HUGE! It just wouldn't make sense for him to drive the hour and 15 minutes twice a day ,just to sleep and come back early enough for me to get off to work. So we'll see.

He also mentioned that he thinks he wants to take our pop up and go for an overnight during that week to "clear his head". I hope it would be a good thing.

Oh, and then this was sort of comical. We were laying there, and we were having R talk (just very light though), and I was emphasizing all we DO have (I know, VERY anti DB. Don't 2X4 me, K).Anyway, so I said..........."Are you attracted to me" and he looks at me with a smirk and says."well, I appear to be". LOL

I totally started laughing because I thought that response was so funny. So finally, It's gone from Not attracted to you at all, to maybe, to yes. Woo Hoo. A small victory! LOL I also got a super cute dress for the wedding today, and I tried it on for him. He liked it a lot I think!

So anyway. He'll be coming over again tonight to see the girls. He can't take them overnight this weekend again because he's working another big offduty job on Sun and Monday. So he'll be coming each night. He's on call today though, so I hope he doesn't get called out so he can come. He may come early to do some stuff around the house before we get home from the wedding.

I hope he does so he can see me all gussied up.

Anyway. I just have no idea what is going to happen, but I'm really really trying the whole PMA route.

WE have the wedding today. My D2 is the flower girl. I'm so nervous. It's a very casual at home wedding ,so they didn't have a rehearsal or anything. WE are just supposed to go early today. I'm really nervous she's not going to do it. Oh well, at least she'll look cute!

Chris