Originally Posted By: buster80
so last question on my mind.....once I move in, I act normal and civil ? she might come at me swinging \:\) you're saying I surprise her by moving in and being there when she gets home, and when she says "what the cluck are you doing ?" i say "watching tv" or whatever it is i'm doing ?


short answer: yes.

if she come swinging, call the cops.

I know your brain is scattered now, but you CAN do this.