Hey Mike..

Funny you should bring up the sending of photos in relationship to your child.

This is one inadvertent way that an innocent child gets put in the middle. Can she help it that she's adorable and everyone falls in love with her?

I know I struggle with sending along photos of my daughter (many of which you can barely even see her) in the play to spouse. I am mad at him now, feel like if he wants the images he can figure out how to get them. But I paused at sending any to his side of the family because I didn't want to deal with the debacle (i.e., if I sent them to his family, I'd have to send it to him otherwise it would be blatantly rude).

I don't want to send him the photos, but it doesn't feel right not to.. that I'm being selfish.

Probably the easiest way is to talk to the mother of your child and make a pact to share pictures of your daughter during significant events.. so neither of you completely lose the moment. Would you consider sending her photos from the wedding with you little angel in it?

It takes two to fight. Only one to open the door.

Damn.. now I have to send the photos.

*hugs*