"Now I'm really on a Side-Bar: this is where ED problems begin in guys my age. They become so alarmed at the loss of the auto-erection that they miss the vital link to their own mood and arousal state. After that, it becomes self-fulling prophecy: if you worry about it NOT happening, then that worry and anxiety will pretty much guarantee that it won't."
Dear Bagheera,
I am so glad I found your thread. I am trying with all my heart to come to grips with what is happening to what is left with my M, which is virtually nothing. I think some of it may have to do with similarities (sex) of what you had problems with in yours.
Is there any possible way you can visit my thread and see if you have any advice for me. I'm not crazy like I sound in some of my posts, but I am pretty desperate. I have only been a member since 7/2/08, but everything got so worse since then, and I'm feeling like there is no hope left. I know this is the wrong attitude, but I do need some help from these boards today, and I'm sure if you're around, you may see something in what's going on.
