my crazy mess part 5 the saga continues!

[christarn]

FG~

"The other things I will need is for you to give me an idea of the things he likes.. what did you guys do together.. where did you and him have the most fun."

Anything outdoors...4wheeler riding, snowmobilling(i guess we can't do that in 90 degree weather though... :D), mudding in his truck, going to local comedy club, hanging out with friends, cooking out, boating, camping, canoeing....we were very outdoorsy kinda people!! like MWD says...when we stopped doing things....it all went to hell...I can look back and see that....school, work...we stopped "dating", having a night out...work/school...his work...there was no "us" time...

"Now.. Poolgate.. I think we just need to drop. At this point.. I think it would be best to not say anything else about it until he brings it up. If it does come up.. you need to restate your thought about what to do.. and ask him if he did not get the text message you sent him."

I am so over "poolgate"....let's drop it, unless he brings it up!

"I have to suspect the response is going to be mean.. that is what you need to be prepared for. You can't let it show that it affects you. You need to respond quickly to the attack that may come. Something "tongue in cheek" like .. Wow angry guy.. you gonna be alright.. just wanted to talk to you."

OKeedoekee....I will be 10 feet tall and bulletproof....goal is longterm....not "in the moment!"

"I still think it is time to stir things up.. I get the feeling you do to.. I just want you to be sure."

I'm sure....time to get the party started....it's been a year and a half...it's time to "do work" son!!!

"you have to face the thing that fears you the most"

The only thing to fear...is fear itself...time to look it head on...and go for it!

It's time to change it up a bit...watch/wait/monitor!!!

why is it days off fly by!!

today is lake day with family and friends...can't wait!! spa day was awesome!!

hope your day off is great!
hugs,
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