Good Morning everyone, I have something on my mind this morning.It's bothering me and I don;t really know what to do about it. It's more games, more drama. Do I play into the games/drama or just let it go. That's the question.
Two days ago my D got her first haircut, I was not informed or sent pictures. It's not a biggie for me, I understand why I was not included. I'm OK with that. My mother was included, my mother, sister, SIL and son were sent pictures. My mother was sent picures by my FIL which is strange in a way. I wondered why they came from him...so I snooped..I know, it's private, I invaded her space..blah, blah, blah. I'll give myself a 2x4 so you don't have to. Anyway, I found 5 emails from my FIL to my STBX talking about sending these pictures and seeing what my mom's response would be. Of course my mom responded to him in a nice way. MY mom is 75, she has OCD, she's a Christian lady who is in church every week. She believes everyone is nice and would never do anything to hurt her or a member of her family.
Now, my problem with all this?? In my eyes they have used my D(or an image of her) to play a game with members of my family. I am quite cool about this at the moment, old Mike would have been raging, I would have been on the phone calling FIL and then having it out with STBX..I am calm and brought it here. I want input.
The emails I found have been forwarded to all my family members. Of course my MOm is very upset that STBX and her dad have did this. I can see why my STBX would do this but it absolutely breaks my heart that my FIL would do this to my mother. He was like a father to me. I went to him for advice before going to my own father..
So there it is. Any responses are appreciated. I'll check back in tonight. Work on the house today. I'll move a few small things this morning. Playing Texas Hold-em tonight with friends..
