Not sure why I've waited so long to come here

[Snow White]

I guess the answer to that is kind of. There were 2 instances where he got violent physically. Once was in April this year he got pulled over for DUI called me to pick him up, which I did and then was convinced that I had called the police on him.This is what initiated my exposing to our families and likely why he then felt free to move out.

The second was after I confronted him the second time about living with OW(after he asked for a second chance at our M and we were "trying") I would not let him leave the house I kept blocking his was so he squeezed my arms rally hard.

I want to say again, never, ever before the A did he act this way, he barely ever raised his voice. He never called me names, and I would never in my wildest dreams have seen him laying a hand on me. Both times when things did get physical I stood my ground out of anger (and I am not taking blame) had I walked away I would have been unscathed.