ha ha - "let's just see" = your H. "Wait and see how it turns out" = my H's fave at that time. Cue the Twighlight Zone theme tune
He did also say in the early weeks that he was enjoying NOT making plans. We met up for a quick 20 min drink about two or three days into our S - it was a good meeting, he told me he had got a lot of pleasure out of cooking himself a simple meal. He needed me to not be around in order to recover.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.