No, because I don't know if I want to save it anymore. I want to be cherished. I want to be an equal partner. I don't think he can give me what I need on an emotional level. I can't continue to compromise my needs. I am too good for that and I have too much love to give. A man who deserves me will be very happy someday.
Girlie, please please print this off, laminate it & stick it in your wallet, where you will read it every single day. This is soooooooooo awesome to hear.
You TOTALLY deserve to be cherished, & have all the beautiful amazing love, that exists within you, returned ten fold.
Hugs.
p.s. I'm really glad you got to have that conversation with H. It sounds like it was really good healthy closure.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.