It looks like you are getting some good signs...(her staying to watch a movie with you?)
We live in the same house, due to a lousy market.. so it happens often.. only difference is we sit on different couches now, where as we used to sit together.
Some things.. i pay for her gym membership/health benefits/ today i grabbed groceries (she drinks 1% milk and i drink skim, so 2 jugs).. and so on
She pays for my cell phone ..which i am trying to decide if i should change the plan so she can't see my calls etc..
lots to think about, someone told me a few months ago, this would be a roller coaster.. man they hit the nail right on the head..