I think that you handles your self like a true DB Ninja. Funny how friends or Spouses, basically the people we care for the most are the ones that mess us up the most.
Generally speaking most people are a little selfish and only see the world through their own eyes, they tend to reflect their own issues on to dealings with others, I am sure He did not mean to be so insensitive but like you said what does he really know of M.
Hang in there only you can know what is right for you and for your M, and so far you tend to all way impress me with your strength and character.
Night
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current