well, she asked a bit ago what I meant by "work on the the marriage". There ware kids all over the place, so I said we should talk about it later. She said she didn't see how to work on that without working on the "other stuff". Which I think probably makes sense. So, there will be more discussion, soon, I expect. And I should probably make sure I have a good answer for that question!
As far as her being depressed, I don't know. My gut says no, but I've been wrong before!
Financial security is REALLY important to her. She resists buying a pair of shoes right now, because there are balances on the credit cards. To hear her talk, we are on the verge of bankruptcy, which is not even close to the truth. But, it's her perception. By spring I'll have things in good shape.
I don't know about the Disney tears. I think part of it is that she really wants to support her friend. And I think it may be hitting her that the kids are getting older, fast! I don't think she was crying about the possibility of losing the marriage. But, emotion other than anger was nice to see, really.
I'm really going to have to figure out what I can do in the organization area. It really isn't my nature. So it will not be easy. I don't know where that will lead.
Tomorrow I won't be on much, taking loads of stuff to the dump! But I'll see you soon!
