Yep, my D happened so quick! I didn't have time to deal with it but that is the way he wanted it. He thought if he did it quickly that I wouldn't find out about OW. He knew he was wrong & felt the guilt & I'm sure that is why he rushed. Plus I think the OW was rushing him also. She had redone his resume on Sept. 4th, he didn't tell me he wanted a D until Sept. 6th. They had not seen each other that I know of since June of that year.
No, I have no contact with H at all, except when he sends me the alimony checks but he never writes anything. This is what has been so hard, no contact! I hope that will hurry up the end of the R with OW. He is getting a chance to know the real person & I just have a feeling he won't like her or she won't like him.
