Yes, it does feel good. I don't know if it's because I lost that much of me during my marriage, but more that I'm looking forward to what I am going to be post-divorce. I've lost a big part of my identity -- wife and stay-at-home-Mom (well, I haven't gotten a job yet, but will soon) -- and it's exciting to see what's coming in to replace that.

I really am feeling good. Truly good. Extremely happy to be out of our home. I never really liked it that much, my husband was the one who loved the house. This house that I'm renting I love and already feel super comfortable here.

Mentally being able to date again just proves to me how far I've come, just how far down the path I am. It feels good. It's so good for my ego to have someone like me after spending ten months trying to get my own husband to like me! It's exciting and, for a change, it's all about me and not about my H, my family or my kids.

I'm happy and it's such a nice change.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.