SW, I'm so sorry about D and the bee sting. My D has been frightened of them since getting stung a couple of time. She's actually had panic attacks when they've gotten too close to her.

However, bee stings are just part of being an active kid. I can't believe your H blamed you. I like that you stood up to him! Way to go! One of these days he's sure to realize how much of a d!ck he's being to you.

Please, think about Lolas question...the cycle is there and even if not physically abusive all roads point to emotional abuse. You don't need to tell us yes or no because I know it can be embarrassing to admitt to. Please take care of you and your D.

Last edited by JenInVen; 08/02/08 03:15 AM.

Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road