Is this the end ? (Soul Mate Final)

[bluerain]

Buster, it sounds to me like you are doing 180's, and detaching... and moving on. You might find that now is when some of the best DBing will happen. I think that you are in a good place, and ready to start healing, good for you. Regardless of what happens with your M, you are heading in the right direction, and you arent doing anything wrong, she is making the bad choices, and she is the one who is going to have to deal with the consequences.

Good luck.