I tried that, i am ok with having the joint account to pay our mortgage until the house sells etc etc.. she doesn't like that I have my own account as well.. but she had her own the whole time we were married, and i never said a thing
There are going to be a lot of things she doesn't like in the upcoming months. Might as well start now.
well i make alot compared to her, have benefits etc etc.. she will be losing all of that soon... and yes there will be things she will not like..