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Marcum #1543032 08/01/08 11:56 PM
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I just called her during my lunch break. she has been takeing WAY more out of the account then she is putting in. that is total B.S. Im not looking to fight with her on sunday ( the day I desided to let her come over) but man we have to get a sepperation of money or in totaly doomed. I may be contacting a lawyer on this.

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Originally Posted By: Marcum
I just called her during my lunch break. she has been takeing WAY more out of the account then she is putting in. that is total B.S. Im not looking to fight with her on sunday ( the day I desided to let her come over) but man we have to get a sepperation of money or in totaly doomed. I may be contacting a lawyer on this.


Just open a new checking account and tell her you aren't putting any in the joint account since she is 'on her own'. Tell her to do the same thing.


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Originally Posted By: Marcum
I just called her during my lunch break. she has been takeing WAY more out of the account then she is putting in. that is total B.S. Im not looking to fight with her on sunday ( the day I desided to let her come over) but man we have to get a sepperation of money or in totaly doomed. I may be contacting a lawyer on this.


Just open a new checking account and tell her you aren't putting any in the joint account since she is 'on her own'. Tell her to do the same thing.


I tried that, i am ok with having the joint account to pay our mortgage until the house sells etc etc.. she doesn't like that I have my own account as well.. but she had her own the whole time we were married, and i never said a thing

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I tried that, i am ok with having the joint account to pay our mortgage until the house sells etc etc.. she doesn't like that I have my own account as well.. but she had her own the whole time we were married, and i never said a thing


There are going to be a lot of things she doesn't like in the upcoming months. Might as well start now. ;\)


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I tried that, i am ok with having the joint account to pay our mortgage until the house sells etc etc.. she doesn't like that I have my own account as well.. but she had her own the whole time we were married, and i never said a thing


There are going to be a lot of things she doesn't like in the upcoming months. Might as well start now. ;\)


well i make alot compared to her, have benefits etc etc.. she will be losing all of that soon... and yes there will be things she will not like..

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Amen. She made choices. There are consequences.


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Amen. She made choices. There are consequences.


Yes .. one of them has to be no contact with my brother and brother's wife's baby to be(in Jan-09)... sorry Marcum, took over your thread for awhile.. my apologies

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Frank please see my thread, i don't want to take up Marcum's thread

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n aw its nice to see otheres here, thats why we are all here, to get input. and your right theres a a lot she needs see, as in the reality that she wont have my income anymore to blow.

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n aw its nice to see otheres here, thats why we are all here, to get input. and your right theres a a lot she needs see, as in the reality that she wont have my income anymore to blow.


How are you doing today Marcum?

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