Hey Jeff, how are you my friend. I just wanted to say that I think you are ok. You handled that well. I know it is frustrating for you to have her answer that way about what she wants done in the yard. I am sure whatever you would have done, she would have complained about.
But more importantly, the crying. Obviously, she wasnt crying about going to Disney. Could it be that she was heard? Or that maybe she feels overburdened by the finances and having heard that she could go was a bit of a relief?
I am a go with the flow kinda girl and I dont sweat the small stuff but I do like things in order. That is obviously very important to her. So, you have to decide if you could change those things permanently about yourself. Because it is just going to keep getting in the way.
Well, you got started. Let's see where this convo leads you. You did well, though. Good for you!