She said she wasn't miserable, in response to something I said about things needing to change, since we were miserable. Which might be an improvement over the desperately unhappy she claimed some years ago.
It's not just financial. She needs things ordered, and organized. Not quite OCD, but that direction. I take things as they come, I can live with clutter, and disorganization. I usually know where the stuff I want is, and it really doesn't bother me. And, we do deal with the kids differently, though I'm not sure that is a bad thing, all the time.
Got to go!
So what can you do to make her happier in this arena?
Show with those things that you care. I'm sure you've already done some.....and I'm sure you would like her to see that these things don't matter, that people do.
But your ability to change in this matter may speak volumes to her.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
