I couldn't have said it better. Just so you know, not everyone's spouse comes back. I am days away from Divorce, still hoping for a miracle but being realistic. I had to control my life and quit letting his affair and actions affect me. The kids are with me and for the record they choose to be with me.

I still have bad days but they are not as bad as they once were. I haven't done everything right but I know that "I can't" attitude isn't going to get you or your son anywhere. Let's start working on what you can do. This isn't about her right now. It is about YOU.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory